Help for moms 2

  I wrote about the situation of moms all over the world some few days ago and i want to believe most mothers understand my point and can relate to the contents of my writing.But rather for me to be the analyzer of what the problem is and how its affecting most people including me, i will rather think of a way out that will be beneficial to both myself and everyone that has the opportunity of reading this write up.

The questions that most of us ask are; 

What can i do? 

How can we help one another to achieve our aim?

In my own words i will like to tell us what we can do and how we can actually help our self and one another.

What can i do? 

I have always believe that there is a way out of every situation even though the situation may be different and there are things i can do to better my situations but all we just need to try. Don't be defeated before the war starts.

One thing i know for sure is that women are strong both physically and mentally and are capable of achieving a lot by them self. You are already doing a lot by juggling all your activities so do not break down because you have it in you, bring out that strength in you, set out your priorities and try to achieve them one after the other without thinking too much of what is still left to be done. Take one step at a time.

  

How can we help one another to achieve our aim?

As much as everyone is busy with their lives, we can still come together as moms to help each other live a life void of stress.

Lets create care groups among ourselves and alternate who watches the kids at what time so that others can have a day off . Or if your circle of friends are the ones that prefer baby sitters, u can collectively hire one or two to babysit your kids together there by reducing the financial stress(which i will still blog about in details) Rely on your circle of support for advice, relief, and help with some of your hardest tasks. 

Lets ask for help whenever we need it from the few people around us that are still willing to help. It may be family members, friends, neighbors, community groups and organizations or just anyone we truly know( please do not for any reason give you kids to strangers to watch) who is genuinely interested in a positive relationship where you both can help each other out.

I also want to say even when you ask for help and cant find non, keep your head up and just go on with your life, if anything or anyone at all have told you or still telling you that you cant achieve without outside help, just go on and show them you can.

And that is the greatest help you can find. YOU.